info about babies How to Raise a Confident, Positive Child
babies learn very quickly, but they are born with their temperament. There is no doubt that genetics are important. Whatever your child hears, sees, observes, interacts with, or learns from the world around them all play a major role in building a positive personality, character, or good behavior. Always remember that every child is unique. Children have different personalities, behaviors, reactions to situations, or the way they express their needs or emotional activities. This guide aims to reveal all these secrets that will definitely be helpful for positive parents.
Understanding Temperament
Every child born with different temperament has a different nature. Some babies are calm, or others are excitable or aggressive. They develop the basis of behavior or personality that will shape how they face the world or how you fit in with others. Their personality is formed by the environment, parenting style, social interaction with the world. Gradually, their personality starts to emerge in the environment over time. You can’t change a babies personality or their natural traits. You can only guide them to be confident, kind, well-behaved, or moral.
• (Activity Level) Some children are always moving or grabbing things, while others sit still and don’t move.
• (Adaptation) Some children need time to adjust to the environment they are growing up in, while others adjust quickly.
• (Intensity) Some are more likely to show emotions, such as laughing or crying loudly, while others babies are more subtle.
• (Sensitivity) Not all babies react the same to noise, texture, or light.
• Some babies are easily redirected, while others insist on getting what they need.
• Some babies vary in how they respond to toys and how much they are interested in them, while others lose interest without time.
Research shows that babies develop curiosity, confidence, or emotional regulation in the first year of their lives. All these qualities help them to cope with all kinds of challenges or manage stress. Later, two important adaptive behaviors are discussed here.
2 main types of child behavior
Let’s break down the two main categories that parents need to know to understand that every child has their own unique temperament. How do parents handle them correctly?
Adaptive behavior
These babies are fast learners or have a positive attitude. They have social skills that can help them survive in their environment. After 3 or 4 months of birth, they have self-help skills. They can hold a feeding bottle or sleep, including rooting and swallowing-breathing, because they know that these are their daily tasks. Let’s study in detail.
Early Adaptive Behavior in Newborns
• Survival-oriented behaviors: Newborns naturally perform behaviors that can help them adapt to their environment and survive more easily.
• The baby turns his head to find the nipple or tilts his chin to breastfeed.
• Sucking-swallowing-breathing leads to successful feeding.
• Through movements or senses, they interact with the environment or learn from different experiences.
Developing adaptive skills
As babies grow, their behavior expands to make sense of the environment. This is important for independence, engagement, or overall development.
• Conceptual skills such as understanding concepts, making simple decisions, or solving problems
• Learning skills on a daily basis, such as feeding themselves, dressing, or cleaning.
• Social skills of interacting with or engaging with people who have a relationship or eye contact with everyone.
• They learn to express needs or communicate with others.
• They also do practical work.
• Examples of adaptive behaviors.
The important thing is to take care of themselves, eat by themselves, dress without help, groom themselves, they can also go to the toilet and take care of clothes, take care of the house, cook, be close to others, be aware of people’s emotions, or they can form relationships very easily.
Child’s misbehavior
It is very difficult to understand or manage the behavior of children who need them. They get frustrated quickly.
They sometimes refuse requests from parents or others.
• They kick, hit, break or throw things.
• They act before thinking or they jump from one task to another. They do not wait to finish the task, they start first.
• They do not show up in front of others If they have social problems, they are disrespectful.
• They do not agree with the rules they break.
• They engage in stale or destructive activities or give more random behavior.
Listen we will talk about some diseases that are very common.
1. ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is not just a disruptive disorder; it has symptoms that include impulsivity, restlessness, they also have difficulty concentrating or being interrupted when other people are talking. All of these disorders cause your child to be disruptive at home or in class.
2. Conduct Disorder CD
This disorder is very serious. It can worry parents because it is more serious. It involves aggressive or bad behavior. They break most of the rules, destroy other people’s things, hurt people and animals, and threaten others.
They often struggle in school or in relationships.
3. Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
Babies with ODD argue with adults, refuse to follow rules, even if they are designed to protect them they lose their temper and offend others. They always seem angry and upset.
Therefore, all these disorders mostly appear in childhood in children. If not treated in time, it can take a more serious form and will definitely be treated with professional help in the future.
Instead of going against your child’s mood, understand it.
Parental responsibilities come from nature.
Your child is completely up to you. The way you raise or treat your child decides what impact your child will have on society in the future. Here are some tips for raising a positive child.
Respond with sensitivity.
• When your child cries or needs to respond to something, his confidence will grow, and he will feel safe.
Encourage discovery.
• Provide them with a safe space where they can build or explore their independence.
Respect individual traits.
• Don’t force your child to face a group situation if they are shy; instead, offer them a new experience or keep their activities calm if they are full of energy.
Model positive behavior
• When you look at them, they observe everything. When you smile, they behave calmly and show restraint. This teaches them how to survive in society.
As a mother, I also face challenges, but instilling a positive attitude in my child means first being a good role model and teaching them to be a good listener. They do what you do in front of them. I avoid labeling my babies and setting boundaries. I encourage open communication, freedom of fun, and involving them in sports. I always help them with their mistakes, creativity, public speaking activities, and setting clear boundaries, but patience is the key to the right behavior.